I’m deeply troubled by the Airbrush Incident, but not for the reasons you might think. I’m not much of a feminist, and I understand Di Tzeitung‘s explanation that it doesn’t print photographs of women because they are “sexually suggestive.” Hey – I said I “understand” the explanation, not that I agree with it. I’m more offended that the paper altered an official White House photograph that states explicitly it can’t do that.
At the root of my consternation is the realization that I regard Hasidic mens’ control of women differently than I regard that of devout Muslim men. This story has me questioning why I “understand” this attitude in Hasidism, but find the Muslim practice insulting. Is it simply because I’m Jewish? Is it because of my Hasidic heritage? How can I justify such a double standard? Isn’t that the definition of prejudice? I’m prejudiced?
If I think the Muslim attitude is repressive, undignified, and shameful, shouldn’t I think the same of the Hasidic? And if I accept the Hasidic practice, why not the Muslim? It’s my inconsistency that disturbs me. Continue reading